mini rant

i find it funny some of the things i have been told about the lifestyle.

The first thing is if a slave wants something they should be able to ask for it. Hmm to me this takes away from the power exchange perhaps a sub or bottom can ask but it totally destroys the idea of giving my control over to some one if i can say now when you hit my but do it like this. Dominants are supposed to have a great knowledge of body language. I would hope that they would know what you like due to your body language as being bound and gagged it might be a bit hard to say much.

Safe sane and concensual lets talk about safe. Injusries happen if a slave thinks they will never be injusred well think again just because they say safe does not mean they are. They take care they hopefully think things through but it not like ther is a code or a committee oboard to certify them and even the best have oops so safe means they try to be careful. Think of it though it is not a game of tag we play these are punishment at the least and some torture in vanilla life. Safe is also a major problem for the dominant. Should a slave decide to move when the whip is already falling well i hope you did not need that!