The old conversation of group dynamics spuring play on and a community dedicated to living the lifestyle came up at coffee today. The main question would be how long would it be before you tired of it.
I wonder about a side thought how long could the Dominants last having to constantly being in role to proved the lifestyle since there would be the ones in control. Are there truly dominant personalities that could go about the day in completion with other dominants achievements? Would they be able to compromise with other Dominants?
I feel it would be easier on the subs and slaves as they wuld really be the ones taken care of by many eyes of dominants rather then the usual one. It would be interesting to see how I wold fare now knowing which dominants would catch a break in the rules, protocols or just take a fancy to torturing me because it is their right to.
So many questions so few answers ah finding the answers is the journey is it not.
drakor at his best
I know one is enough I prefer using two hands thank you
Showing posts with label Questions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Questions. Show all posts
Friday, June 05, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
so did i screw up
I have had a great week being a dumb ass or at lest not showing a decent level of intelligence. Well at least for a slave. Seems it must have been the change in the weather or that we lost an hour of sleep of the weekend but the grey cells just are not working up to par.
I was contacted by a Transsexual Mistress a few days ago. Now first I always have said that my services are not only for Female dominants they are open for all dominants as I supposedly try to be a slave.
So I got an email from fetlife saying to call this Mistress in broken English, with a number to reach her at. I thought oh well another Ghana person or a pro and the one thing I do not do is pay some one to beat my ass. So I sent an email saying I would in a few days not expecting to hear from her but I was surprise to get a return email from her not only that but an exchange of them. One saying to call her she wanted to have a drink with me.
Feeling comfortable with thatI decided to call. I was standing waiting for a bus when I did but there was no answer. Thought well must be out and closed to phone only to have it ring it was her. She immediately ask me what my limits were and she wanted to to see that day. Now that could have been a misunderstanding as the interpretation of ME servir is in question Her broken English and my store French might have caused a lack of understanding, I said I would call her Monday and I had to go as I was off to clean another house. She said no call me when you get to your next client.
I agree but was upset that I did. We had not talked, I had not agreed to being her slave after a two minute call who did she think she was . So when I got off the bus I said to myself well I just won’t call but she did and started to give me hell for being late with my call. So I said I was not interested she called me a time waster and has since blocked me on Fetlife and I would guess my phone number is also.
Not very slave like for me she acted like a Domme maybe stronger then the ones I am use to not afraid to take control off the bat. Wanting to know my where about sis also a dominant trait as well as giving a slave shit because they did not do what they were told to do.
So now I ponder was I wrong to balk at her requests? Was I scared off by her dominance? Was it just and inability to understand each other?
Would not having coffee and talks before any playing be wrong should I have gone wit the flow as a good slave or at least an ideal on? Perhaps I am really out of practice in being a slave. If I was on an auctin block I would have been sold and have to do what I said I would so I said I would be a good slave and oops did I screw up.
So did I screw up
I was contacted by a Transsexual Mistress a few days ago. Now first I always have said that my services are not only for Female dominants they are open for all dominants as I supposedly try to be a slave.
So I got an email from fetlife saying to call this Mistress in broken English, with a number to reach her at. I thought oh well another Ghana person or a pro and the one thing I do not do is pay some one to beat my ass. So I sent an email saying I would in a few days not expecting to hear from her but I was surprise to get a return email from her not only that but an exchange of them. One saying to call her she wanted to have a drink with me.
Feeling comfortable with thatI decided to call. I was standing waiting for a bus when I did but there was no answer. Thought well must be out and closed to phone only to have it ring it was her. She immediately ask me what my limits were and she wanted to to see that day. Now that could have been a misunderstanding as the interpretation of ME servir is in question Her broken English and my store French might have caused a lack of understanding, I said I would call her Monday and I had to go as I was off to clean another house. She said no call me when you get to your next client.
I agree but was upset that I did. We had not talked, I had not agreed to being her slave after a two minute call who did she think she was . So when I got off the bus I said to myself well I just won’t call but she did and started to give me hell for being late with my call. So I said I was not interested she called me a time waster and has since blocked me on Fetlife and I would guess my phone number is also.
Not very slave like for me she acted like a Domme maybe stronger then the ones I am use to not afraid to take control off the bat. Wanting to know my where about sis also a dominant trait as well as giving a slave shit because they did not do what they were told to do.
So now I ponder was I wrong to balk at her requests? Was I scared off by her dominance? Was it just and inability to understand each other?
Would not having coffee and talks before any playing be wrong should I have gone wit the flow as a good slave or at least an ideal on? Perhaps I am really out of practice in being a slave. If I was on an auctin block I would have been sold and have to do what I said I would so I said I would be a good slave and oops did I screw up.
So did I screw up
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Ownership
What is ownership of a slave/sub//house boy. When do yu say your are owned. Is it when control is given over then how much. The only part of my life that I can give up for ownership is th part that is drakor. The lifestyle submissive side. Does not seem like much does as I have many parts to my life.
Well I have give control of my submissive lifestyle to alpha sub is that not ownership in a way. She has control of the play sessions . I have few hard limits and I always give a slave's contract so once the negotiation is over if I forgot something as a hard limit tough luck for me. That means she pretty well controls all of my drakor life. Since I said long ago that when no one is the house I act as a slave she could control a lot of my day, the way I dress and what I do . The one rule it cannot interfere with my vanilla life.
So when should a slave be owned when do they become property and not just a toy? When I dom it just happens when I am comfortable that they can accept what is ask of them when I feel good about reading their body language. That is when I ask them how much control of their lives are they willing to give and if acceptable I control or own that part of their lives. I think the Dominant has to feel when it is right and what ownership means to them both in what they need and what they must give. Another question to ponder for a while where is that book of rules now?
Well I have give control of my submissive lifestyle to alpha sub is that not ownership in a way. She has control of the play sessions . I have few hard limits and I always give a slave's contract so once the negotiation is over if I forgot something as a hard limit tough luck for me. That means she pretty well controls all of my drakor life. Since I said long ago that when no one is the house I act as a slave she could control a lot of my day, the way I dress and what I do . The one rule it cannot interfere with my vanilla life.
So when should a slave be owned when do they become property and not just a toy? When I dom it just happens when I am comfortable that they can accept what is ask of them when I feel good about reading their body language. That is when I ask them how much control of their lives are they willing to give and if acceptable I control or own that part of their lives. I think the Dominant has to feel when it is right and what ownership means to them both in what they need and what they must give. Another question to ponder for a while where is that book of rules now?
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