Just questions

So do dominants gain satisfaction through verbal humiliation of their charges or do they do it merely to please the desire of the slave?

This can be used through out th0 elifestyle and what it boils down to the same old question are dominants just a toy i the bag for the slave?

Is there really a dominant that enjoys the non pain side of domination or is their sexual drive or desires fuelled only by the sado side of their desires?

Slaves can pull out the nipple clamps, they can self flagelate and push a great variety of things into their orifices when they do not have a dominant. Then they can drift off to self satisfaction. What can the dominant do whip a pillow talk nasty to a chair or yell at a kitchen counter for being dirty? Then the idea of self satisfaction is good for all i mean we all have hands or vibrators but the desires that pushes a slave to want their vibrators i do not see apparent in the dominant due to their need to have a slave to be a dominant. SO beside just staight sex how do you dominants excite excite your dominant sides do you put your leathers on a bit tighter?